I’ve had several online mentors throughout my life. The first was Victor Pride from the blog Bold & Determined which is now closed after Victor had a born again experience. I started reading his blog at a prime time in my life… I was 20 years old. Eventually, I got into the best shape of my life at that age.
Mentors don’t necessarily have to be someone that you meet in person. A mentor is simply someone that you learn from. Most people get jealous when they encounter someone that is doing significantly better than them in life, but this was never the case with me. Because I am Christian, I never get jealous at all.
And whenever my friend or acquaintance or someone I know succeeds and is successful, I’m happy for them. The wisest thing you can do when you can across someone who is successful is to learn from them. That is what virtually all successful people do. And on my blog, you are reading this, and learning from me too. And I am sharing with you all of my knowledge, for free.
The second mentor I had was Dr. Charles Stanley from Intouch Ministries. His sermons are amazing; and he was a very wise man. I learned so much about God and faith from Dr. Charles Stanley and incidentally, I found him online not long before I finally became a true Christian and had an amazing born again experience. And I experienced the peace that surpasses all human understanding.
Whatever age you are, especially if you are young, you NEED a mentor and you need one urgently. Whatever your interests are in life, you can find a mentor online that will help you grow in knowledge, wisdom and understanding. The amount of knowledge I have after reading thousands of internet articles is insane. I didn’t watch that many YouTube videos in comparison. And some people watch 10-20 YouTube videos EVERY DAY just to enhance their learning, which I recommend.
The truth is, learning is fun. School, not so much. You learn garbage information in school and don’t really learn anything that’s going to help you to succeed in life and flourish as a human being. You have to seek that knowledge out on your own. Reading tonnes of books is a great start, and there are various other self-improvement for men blogs out there on the internet. You just have to search.
The third mentor I had was Matt Cross from the YouTube channels The 33 Secrets and Alpha Male Secrets. M taught me all about female nature, hypergamy, and the red pill. I learned so much about women and dating from his channels and he is in a fact a professional pickup artist.
Pickup artistry is something that I’ve tried myself in the past, but unfortunately because I am a devoted Christian it’s not something that I can do professionally. However, pickup is simply a numbers game and in case you’re wondering, it definitely works. But it does require skill – and you need to be above average in attractiveness or it’s going to be tougher for you.
But even if you are bad looking, your confidence will shine and the girl will be attracted to you because of that. Forget dating apps – if you want a girlfriend you need to go out and approach. It is the best way to find a hot girlfriend, and there are many mentors online on YouTube and Instagram who you can learn from or you can buy coaching. But I recommend that you learn from Matt.
My point is, when it comes to business and making money, learning about faith and God, and learning about women and dating, you need a mentor. And in fact, you should be learning everything from everyone, like Victor. I learned that from him. And ALWAYS read the comments. You can find so much valuable information from reading the comments no matter where you are on the internet. Comments are gold.
So if you are young and clueless, or maybe a bit older and not happy with your life, it’s time to get a mentor. It could change your life.
-Fierce Alpha
Leave a Reply