Trust me. You don’t. You think you do, and that getting a girlfriend will complete you, and solve all your problems, but it won’t. And even if you do manage to find a girlfriend, inevitably something is going to go wrong and it will end in a breakup.
Whenever I was a teenager I was obsessed with finding a girlfriend. And because I didn’t have one, I let this depress me to the point that I had a mental breakdown. Ultimately the reason I have a mental illness today is all because of one girl that I met during my teenage years.
She hurt me – by telling me that she was going to kiss other boys – and I closed up like a clam. I became a tortoise, because I was so used to other people hurting me after enduring bullying at school. I almost committed suicide because of these issues at the age of 16. Fortunately however, I persevered.
The reality is that most women are just going to hurt you.
Next year, at the age of 17, I started playing rugby. And I was really, really good at it. I won player of the year in my first year ever playing rugby. This took my mind off things until she decided to date someone from the team. Hurting me, again.
And to be honest, that describes my life. All my life all people have tried to do to me is hurt me. So I isolated. And I’m now I’m almost complete isolation. But it’s not a bad thing. You don’t need a girlfriend. You think you do, but you don’t. And with MGTOW happening right now, plenty of men out there are walking away from women. Solitude, in many ways, is actually a blessing.
Being on your own most of the time is a recipe for a peaceful life. And that’s all I want, a peaceful life. And I have one, finally. Don’t get me wrong, I am open to the idea of dating, and I’ll vet any women that approach me in the near future, but for now I’m happy alone. I like being by myself. I enjoy my own company. And you should strive to be the same.
Start enjoying your own company. Use time alone to work on a side hustle or start a business. Start your own blog. Buy a cheap course from Udemy. Start some Instagram pages. There’s plenty of ways out there that you can figure out how to start making some money. Try affiliate marketing. You might succeed, who knows. But having a mentor is a shortcut to success.
Take up some new hobbies. Start going to the gym. Try joining your local rugby club (highly recommended) or join a boxing club. Go for walks every morning around your local park. Or stay in and play an online game like Oldschool Runescape. Start enjoying being by yourself. And stop worrying about getting a girlfriend. You don’t need a girlfriend to be happy.
Happiness comes from within.
And that is the truth.
-Aaron
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