For most men out there, they are invisible to women. Today women have extremely high standards for the man that they want to date, and unfortunately most men don’t meet that standard. Even myself barely gets any attention from women these days and especially since I am still overweight.
The truth is that all these women have an exaggerated view of their own value because of social media. All that free attention has fueled their own ego to the point that they will accept nothing less than a millionaire. It actually takes being a millionaire or being in insane shape or having a car to even get on a date these days, and even then the women act like they are the prize.
The reality (that most women overlook) is that very few of these men would actually be willing to settle down and start a family with them. Once you realise this it becomes hilarious when you walk past a woman and she completely ignores you because most men are only interested in sex. They are not interested in marriage, or commitment. And neither am I.
If you are a woman reading this, try to find a high-value guy that is willing to settle down with you. I think you’ll find that your options totally dry up because trying to lock down a high-value man in their twenties is what virtually all women try to achieve at and fail. As a result most women are going to be single and alone in the future.
I’ve watched a bunch of men’s YouTube channels talking about these issues with dating and what not, so I have a great understanding of the problem. Everything was fine until dating apps came along – Tinder and the like. As such if you are not an exceptionally attractive man you will get rejected.
These apps have made women only focus on appearance when trying to pick a mate instead of the most important thing – the man’s character. His qualities. His strength. Virtually all women are trying to find a strong man by assessing how attractive or masculine he looks. But this is the wrong way to go about this.
Trust me, I’m one of the strongest men on the entire planet and I get almost zero attention from women. So when it comes to modern dating, there are only two options. Look a million bucks, or flash a million bucks. It’s that simple. Either you put in the work to achieve a great physique (in progress) or you flash the cash. Because ultimately women are only interested in sex or money.
And considering because I am Christian that I am not even that necessarily interested in sex, that narrows it down even more. How many women out there would I put a ring on it? Almost none. I’m not interested in marriage and I’m not particularly interested in sex either, what I care about is companionship.
I want someone to be there for me, support me, and laugh together. I want to create memories and do interesting things together, someone to meet at a coffee shop, someone to come over and hang out, someone to watch movies with. That’s what I care about, more than sex or anything else. Someone to spend my time with. But I can easily go without it.
What most modern women need to realise is that they are not as high-value as they think (even average women act like they are dimepieces). What they need to realise is that very few (if any) of the men that they are talking to would be willing to marry them. When it really comes down to it, most men will give it a pass.
So the fact that hundreds or even thousands of men want to have sex with you is not a true indication of your value. Very few of these men would be willing to put a ring on it. So your view of your own value is just an illusion. And that’s just the truth. Most men in the modern era are choosing to walk away from women.
I would have some pretty good reasons to do the same, but I am keeping my mind open. I might try seriously dating out once I get into shape to see what it is like. See if I meet anyone. But I also realise that the chances that I will meet my future wife are almost none. I don’t intend to get married, I would rather be single, a choice that more and more men by the day are deciding to make.
Life as a single man can in many ways be more fulfilling, more rewarding, then being in an unhappy relationship or marriage just because you are afraid of being alone. Embrace solitude, learn to accept yourself, and be your own biggest coach – and NEVER put yourself down, under any condition. Until next time.
-Aaron
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